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Vice President Cheney: Best (Famous*) Father of a Gay Person

Posted by GayPatriotWest at 3:10 am - June 18, 2006.
Filed under: Gay America,Noble Republicans

On Father’s Day this year, we have decided to pay tribute to a Republican leader who, by loving and accepting his lesbian daughter for who she is and welcoming her life-partner into his family, has become a role model for all parents of gay children, indeed, has helped define what it means to be a good father.

When we read in his daughter Mary’s most excellent book, Now It’s My Turn: A Daughter’s Chronicle of Political Life about his paternal qualities, the Vice President reminds us of our own Dads. Thus, in honoring Dick Cheney on Father’s Day this year, we are also honoring all fathers who are devoted to their children, those good men who take seriously their parental responsibilities and through their affection and even their goofiness, have earned places in our hearts.

On an Instapundit podcast last month, Mary said she was “so incredibly fortunate to have the parents I do,” adding that the Vice President “is a great Dad!!“** The anecdotes she provides in her book provide further evidence of his qualities as a man — and a father. When his daughter came out to him, he responded exactly as she had hoped he would, telling Mary he loved her and wanted her to be happy. A few years later, he was concerned how his nomination as the GOP Vice Presidential candidate in 2000 might affect her.

By continuing to love his daughter after she came out as he had before, the Vice President showed a quality that all fathers should have, even those without gay children — that of accepting and loving their offspring as they are.

But, it’s not just his acceptance of his younger daughter’s difference that defines the Vice President as an exemplary father. It’s also that even after his daughters have grown up, he continues to spend time with them, whether for hunting and fishing trips or for such traditional family gatherings as Thanksgiving dinners — which Mary’s Dad cooks (almost) every year. A picture from Mary’s book of her and her sister Liz on a fishing trip with their father reminds me of one of my favorite pictures of me and my Dad (on a hike in Colorado).

It’s not just in his personal life where the Vice President has distinguished himself as a father. He has both welcomed Mary’s partner Heather into his family and included her in public events. Heather joined Mary on stage when the president declared victory after the 2004 election, causing even then-HRC President Cheryl Jacques to take heart. And Heather sat beside Mary when George W. Bush was sworn in for a second term as president. The Vice President promised to go to bat for a man if his supervisors gave him trouble for coming out.