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		<title>By: GayPatriot &#187; Was CBS wrong to reject gay dating site&#8217;s Super Bowl ad?</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-546352</link>
		<dc:creator>GayPatriot &#187; Was CBS wrong to reject gay dating site&#8217;s Super Bowl ad?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 10:22:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I&#8217;m wondering if the same folks who sued eHarmony for not offering a service to match up gay people will sue Mancrunch for not offering to match up [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Vivian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vivian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 07:53:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#40--I was going to make this same suggestion, but, um, you beat me to the punch! So, yes, let Eharmony send each gay male a nice heterosexual female date, with matching 29 Dimensions of compatibility, of course!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#40&#8211;I was going to make this same suggestion, but, um, you beat me to the punch! So, yes, let Eharmony send each gay male a nice heterosexual female date, with matching 29 Dimensions of compatibility, of course!</p>
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		<title>By: JC, Paris</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-333431</link>
		<dc:creator>JC, Paris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 20:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, hell. Maybe McKinley was just looking for another gay Christian. There&#039;s more than one, you know. And they can be pretty hard to find.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, hell. Maybe McKinley was just looking for another gay Christian. There&#8217;s more than one, you know. And they can be pretty hard to find.</p>
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		<title>By: The Livewire</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-333418</link>
		<dc:creator>The Livewire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 18:35:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here let me help.

Discriminate: to mark or perceive the distinguishing or peculiar features 

Prefer: to like better or best 

I prefer steak, thus I discriminate against tofu.

*yawn* next straw man please?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here let me help.</p>
<p>Discriminate: to mark or perceive the distinguishing or peculiar features </p>
<p>Prefer: to like better or best </p>
<p>I prefer steak, thus I discriminate against tofu.</p>
<p>*yawn* next straw man please?</p>
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		<title>By: The Livewire</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-333417</link>
		<dc:creator>The Livewire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 18:30:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please illuminate me oh great timb...

What is the difference, between positions in the dictionary?  Or do you always have to resort to tired trite racist examples to score points.

perhaps you&#039;d like to complain to Bruce that his filter discriminates against &#039;little Greek island&#039; women and holds them in limbo?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please illuminate me oh great timb&#8230;</p>
<p>What is the difference, between positions in the dictionary?  Or do you always have to resort to tired trite racist examples to score points.</p>
<p>perhaps you&#8217;d like to complain to Bruce that his filter discriminates against &#8216;little Greek island&#8217; women and holds them in limbo?</p>
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		<title>By: timb</title>
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		<dc:creator>timb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 17:49:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And our legal system exists solely in your definition of words, Livewire, and not in mine or, Heaven forbid, the American judicial system.  All hail, Livewire, the definer of of all!

Oh, and to be perfectly honest, if you knew the difference between &quot;discrimination&quot; and &quot;preference,&quot; I&#039;d be surprised, although you have opened it up enough that those nice people in Oxford can stop serving African-Americans.  Nice work</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And our legal system exists solely in your definition of words, Livewire, and not in mine or, Heaven forbid, the American judicial system.  All hail, Livewire, the definer of of all!</p>
<p>Oh, and to be perfectly honest, if you knew the difference between &#8220;discrimination&#8221; and &#8220;preference,&#8221; I&#8217;d be surprised, although you have opened it up enough that those nice people in Oxford can stop serving African-Americans.  Nice work</p>
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		<title>By: The Livewire</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-333381</link>
		<dc:creator>The Livewire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 12:49:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>timb,

As I&#039;ve said before, discrimination, in and of itself, is not wrong.  If Dan hit on me, I&#039;d be flattered and bemused, but I&#039;d turn him down because I prefer women.  That&#039;s discrimination.  

If I choose to go to Subway because I think Jersey Mikes is overpriced, that&#039;s discrimination.

If I run a Kosher deli, I&#039;m discrimination against the guy coming in wanting a ham sandwich.  Worse, it&#039;s discrimination based on religion! *gasp*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>timb,</p>
<p>As I&#8217;ve said before, discrimination, in and of itself, is not wrong.  If Dan hit on me, I&#8217;d be flattered and bemused, but I&#8217;d turn him down because I prefer women.  That&#8217;s discrimination.  </p>
<p>If I choose to go to Subway because I think Jersey Mikes is overpriced, that&#8217;s discrimination.</p>
<p>If I run a Kosher deli, I&#8217;m discrimination against the guy coming in wanting a ham sandwich.  Worse, it&#8217;s discrimination based on religion! *gasp*</p>
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		<title>By: eHarmony Forced to List Gays &#124; All American Blogger</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-333010</link>
		<dc:creator>eHarmony Forced to List Gays &#124; All American Blogger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 01:32:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: timb</title>
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		<dc:creator>timb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 20:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Um, timb, thereâ€™s a difference between a public drinking fountain and a private dating services.

The New Jersey law thus limits freedom. Do you then support heterosexual couples using New Jersey law to demand service from gay websites? I donâ€™t.

They should be free to run their business as they see fit. You disagree. Why is it you find freedom so disconcerting?&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Actually, as mentioned in the non-sarcatic section of my post, the New Jersey law has been implicitly upheld in the Jaycees case and explicitly in the Boy Scouts case. 

Swing and a miss for the freedom lover who wants to make sure &quot;freedom&quot; (as he sees it) trump &quot;equality&quot; (as seen by the US Judicial system and a gay guy is New jersey who wants a compatible date...oh the horror!).

On a serious note, what you call freedom other people call discrimination.  If you don&#039;t like the law, then go repeal it, but Eharmony was correct when it ran away.  Its case was a loser.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Um, timb, thereâ€™s a difference between a public drinking fountain and a private dating services.</p>
<p>The New Jersey law thus limits freedom. Do you then support heterosexual couples using New Jersey law to demand service from gay websites? I donâ€™t.</p>
<p>They should be free to run their business as they see fit. You disagree. Why is it you find freedom so disconcerting?</p></blockquote>
<p>Actually, as mentioned in the non-sarcatic section of my post, the New Jersey law has been implicitly upheld in the Jaycees case and explicitly in the Boy Scouts case. </p>
<p>Swing and a miss for the freedom lover who wants to make sure &#8220;freedom&#8221; (as he sees it) trump &#8220;equality&#8221; (as seen by the US Judicial system and a gay guy is New jersey who wants a compatible date&#8230;oh the horror!).</p>
<p>On a serious note, what you call freedom other people call discrimination.  If you don&#8217;t like the law, then go repeal it, but Eharmony was correct when it ran away.  Its case was a loser.</p>
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		<title>By: The Livewire</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Livewire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 19:16:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok they go first because GBLT would sound like a sandwich.

That and sorry, women are better looking then men.

Says the fat white straight guy ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok they go first because GBLT would sound like a sandwich.</p>
<p>That and sorry, women are better looking then men.</p>
<p>Says the fat white straight guy <img src='http://www.gaypatriot.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mr. Moderate</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-332868</link>
		<dc:creator>Mr. Moderate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 15:22:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Which gay websites are barring straight people from using them?  I haven&#039;t heard of such policies.  While a straight guy won&#039;t find much female tail on Manhunt, nothing stops them from trying.  eHarmony on the other hand specific prohibited gay people from using the service.  

Your examples about Christians suing a Jewish organization for access and the like are cute.  Ironically anti-discrimination laws do protect discrimination on the basis of religion but not on sexual orientation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Which gay websites are barring straight people from using them?  I haven&#8217;t heard of such policies.  While a straight guy won&#8217;t find much female tail on Manhunt, nothing stops them from trying.  eHarmony on the other hand specific prohibited gay people from using the service.  </p>
<p>Your examples about Christians suing a Jewish organization for access and the like are cute.  Ironically anti-discrimination laws do protect discrimination on the basis of religion but not on sexual orientation.</p>
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		<title>By: American Elephant</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-332859</link>
		<dc:creator>American Elephant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:06:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Perhaps the Gay Patriot filter is run by the Chi-coms, I seem to remember a news story -- something about them filtering out anything having to do with *quietly spells the dirty word* l-e-s-b-i-a-n-s.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps the Gay Patriot filter is run by the Chi-coms, I seem to remember a news story &#8212; something about them filtering out anything having to do with *quietly spells the dirty word* l-e-s-b-i-a-n-s.</p>
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		<title>By: American Elephant</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-332857</link>
		<dc:creator>American Elephant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:02:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;I still wanna know why lesbians get top billing.&lt;/blockquote&gt;ladies first?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I still wanna know why lesbians get top billing.</p></blockquote>
<p>ladies first?</p>
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		<title>By: The Livewire</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-332848</link>
		<dc:creator>The Livewire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 13:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ugh, forgot about the &#039;little Greek Island&#039; filter.

BTW anyone know how that lawsuit in Europe went?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ugh, forgot about the &#8216;little Greek Island&#8217; filter.</p>
<p>BTW anyone know how that lawsuit in Europe went?</p>
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		<title>By: Shared Items - November 21, 2008 &#8212; ETC: Everyday Thoughts Collected</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shared Items - November 21, 2008 &#8212; ETC: Everyday Thoughts Collected</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 13:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Pat</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-2/#comment-332824</link>
		<dc:creator>Pat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 12:20:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt; I still wanna know why lesbians get top billing. &lt;/i&gt;

I don&#039;t know.  But it&#039;s another example of an unnecessary thing to fight for as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i> I still wanna know why lesbians get top billing. </i></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know.  But it&#8217;s another example of an unnecessary thing to fight for as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Pat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 12:19:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt; Um, timb, thereâ€™s a difference between a public drinking fountain and a private dating services.

The New Jersey law thus limits freedom. Do you then support heterosexual couples using New Jersey law to demand service from gay websites? I donâ€™t.

They should be free to run their business as they see fit. You disagree. Why is it you find freedom so disconcerting? &lt;/i&gt;

Dan, I agree with you, but I want to play Devil&#039;s Advocate, since I am trying to find a good reason why the diner scenario (not a public drinking fountain or schools) is different than the eHarmony.  

Sure, back in the 50s and 60s a white person could have sued for access to a black customers only diner.  But I&#039;m guessing not many did.  

In any case, there are good things to fight for.  Being able to be matched up in eHarmony is not one of them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i> Um, timb, thereâ€™s a difference between a public drinking fountain and a private dating services.</p>
<p>The New Jersey law thus limits freedom. Do you then support heterosexual couples using New Jersey law to demand service from gay websites? I donâ€™t.</p>
<p>They should be free to run their business as they see fit. You disagree. Why is it you find freedom so disconcerting? </i></p>
<p>Dan, I agree with you, but I want to play Devil&#8217;s Advocate, since I am trying to find a good reason why the diner scenario (not a public drinking fountain or schools) is different than the eHarmony.  </p>
<p>Sure, back in the 50s and 60s a white person could have sued for access to a black customers only diner.  But I&#8217;m guessing not many did.  </p>
<p>In any case, there are good things to fight for.  Being able to be matched up in eHarmony is not one of them.</p>
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		<title>By: ThatGayConservative</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-1/#comment-332773</link>
		<dc:creator>ThatGayConservative</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 07:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Oh holy insufferable acronyms batman, every time I turn around thereâ€™s more letters on that god-forsaken thing. &lt;/blockquote&gt;

I still wanna know why lesbians get top billing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Oh holy insufferable acronyms batman, every time I turn around thereâ€™s more letters on that god-forsaken thing. </p></blockquote>
<p>I still wanna know why lesbians get top billing.</p>
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		<title>By: American Elephant</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-1/#comment-332756</link>
		<dc:creator>American Elephant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 05:24:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hmmm

BCT,

I hate to point out the blatantly obvious (ok, no I don&#039;t, in this case I relish it), but transacting business with someone &lt;i&gt;is&lt;/i&gt; an association.

And sorry, but liberty is far more enlightened than the statism you favor. 

As always it is &lt;i&gt;liberals&lt;/i&gt; who are the last to become enlightened. 

You know what you call an enlightened liberal, BCT? A conservative.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hmmm</p>
<p>BCT,</p>
<p>I hate to point out the blatantly obvious (ok, no I don&#8217;t, in this case I relish it), but transacting business with someone <i>is</i> an association.</p>
<p>And sorry, but liberty is far more enlightened than the statism you favor. </p>
<p>As always it is <i>liberals</i> who are the last to become enlightened. </p>
<p>You know what you call an enlightened liberal, BCT? A conservative.</p>
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		<title>By: jebntex</title>
		<link>http://www.gaypatriot.net/2008/11/20/eharmony-forced-to-provide-same-sex-dating-services/comment-page-1/#comment-332751</link>
		<dc:creator>jebntex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 05:01:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well folks I guess we are sliding down the proverbial slope....hopefully right into the arms of a gay, conservative,Jewish,doctor who was a boy scout that likes long walks on the beach....

Oh and to answer the BIG question....it IS my experience &quot;everything is bigger in Texas&quot;

jebntex</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well folks I guess we are sliding down the proverbial slope&#8230;.hopefully right into the arms of a gay, conservative,Jewish,doctor who was a boy scout that likes long walks on the beach&#8230;.</p>
<p>Oh and to answer the BIG question&#8230;.it IS my experience &#8220;everything is bigger in Texas&#8221;</p>
<p>jebntex</p>
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