Just a reminder about our next Meatless Mondays Steak Dinner, tomorrow January 27.
E-mail me for details and to RSVP
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Just a reminder about our next Meatless Mondays Steak Dinner, tomorrow January 27.
E-mail me for details and to RSVP
Okay, okay, I know it’s been about two months since last I blogged and about the same amount of time since I checked this web-site. I have been quite busy with my book, having met, in 2013, all the deadlines I set for myself, including finishing the first draft of my book by the end of the year. I am now editing the second part of that first book of my epic.
Did want to invite our readers who will in LA next week to attend our next Meatless Mondays Steak Dinner on January 27. Drop me a note for details and to RSVP.
Last night, I had a pleasant dinner, spontaneously arranged, with one of my closest friends in LA. He and I had met about six years via an online dating service. We didn’t feel much romantic chemistry, but did enjoy each other’s company and became friends.
as we occasionally do, we shared our stories about online dating, he kvetching about a man who didn’t call when he promised, but who subsequently kept pestering him with texts, I sharing stories about a number of decent dates I had with guys whose profiles presented a pretty accurate portrait of their personality, profession and passions.
And then we fell to talking about guys who misrepresented themselves on line, with both of us recalling dates with men who just didn’t look like their pictures. I related a tale about a guy I met depicted as thin in his online pictures, but who in person, suffered from a severe shall we say, a severe absence of thin. (After our coffee date, I went back home and checked his profile and ascertained that that was clearly the guy depicted online, but the pictures were at least ten years old.)
And we wondered last night, my friend and I, we wondered what these men thought when they posted these pictures, that their scintillating personalities would make up for the difference in appearance? Didn’t it occur to them that men who responded to the ad would be attracted to that picture and expect to meet someone who looked like the guy in the picture? Or did they believe that the picture merely served to draw the potential date to the profile and that the qualities delineated therein constituted the real nature of said date’s interest?
Or did they believe their own propaganda, that they actually looked today like they did ten years ago, despite the fact that ten years ago, they exercised regularly whereas today they’re making plans to exercise next week? [Read more…]